SOMETIMES IN OUR LIFE…
sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appriciate the people who love us. we miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by our own selfish concerns. go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the man whom loves you more.
the best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being. to let go of someone doesnt mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find her own HAPPINESS without expecting her to come back. letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting your self free from all fears, bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.
do not let the bitterness rare away your strengh and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it. you may have found peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. but be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. we can all survive with just beautiful memories of the fast but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today.
there comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. this feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. the sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just friendship, or the feelings she might have for you is just too far from how you love her. we start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.
